So I get this question a TON! So I figured it would be a good idea to just give you so me basics.. of how to recognize a RANDOM. Yeah, I’m giving you some practical tips but you have to make sure that you’re spending time with God daily (I blogged about it here) & letting Him lead your life. PEACE should rule as an empire in your heart daily.
If you’re new to what “RANDOM” is– let’s define it, A Random is defined as a person you KNOW you’ll never marry but you date them to fill a void because you’re lonely or bored. A random is that ex boyfriend that is still trying to EMOTIONALLY connect with you and you’re married. A random is a co-worker that is switching’ all hard in your face trying to get your attention. A random is a unhealthy relationship. This could also go for friendships as well. It’s that person you KNOW is messy & gossips about everyone..but you still hang around them. If they’re talking about others, they’re talking about YOU. It’s that friend that says, “girlll, you better get it– he got money”– or that guy that says “lets hit the strip club tonight..” I also introduced a “No Randoms” pinky promise bracelet as a fun reminder to tell them to get’ outta’ here! 🙂 You can get one here.
Another disclaimer: NO man or woman is perfect, so get that fantasy out of your head. If you want a fairytale, watch a Disney movie. PEOPLE will have things that they need to work on. However, you should have standards and deal breakers.
But specifically for this blog– we’ll focus on No Randoms in a relationship. These could go for MEN or WOMEN.